Call my own foul
Calling one’s own foul is a core principle/value by which I have always lived, even at risk to my own well being, even if I have temporarily wavered in calling my own foul, I have in fact called my fouls.
And I believe life is better, relationships have the potential to be more alive and deeper when i acknowledge my fouls to the ones i have fouled. I have done so.
If you know me, you know this is true about me and my life.
Others actions and responses are not mine. They are not mine to manage, control or dictate. They solely belong to the other.
With the exception of agents hired, like lawyers, who take actions in my name and under my authority. I am accountable for these actions taken in my name (as you are responsible for agents who act in your name).